Not Where You Want To Be??? Do Something About It...

​Hey ladies…I was having a discussion with RaeBae today which brings me to  today's topic. The topic for this month is a great one! Instead of doing an entire post on it, I am going to get right to the point. If you are feeling as though you are not where you are supposed to be at this stage in your life, I’d like for you to  STOP!!!

Stop, 1) looking at what other people are doing; 2) questioning your ability based on the ability of others; and 3) get rid of emotions such as jealousy and anger when you learn about an accomplishment someone else has made. 

Now to go along with the demand to STOP, I am going to provide 3 great tips that you can use and begin to see your life move forward. They are:
1.       Now, this is the most important thing that will be shared in this entire post…”What is meant for you will NOT pass you by.” Regardless of what your spiritual preference is, we have all heard, ‘what is given to someone else is for them, not for you.’ Don’t spend your time focused on something that is totally out of your control, instead work on your own destiny.
2.       Take some time and evaluate ‘you’. All the energy you put into concerning yourself with others, put that into working on you. Ask yourself some difficult questions like, a) what do you want out of life; b) how much work have you put into obtaining what you want; c) what do you have to do going forward to reach your goals? In other words, take responsibility for your current and future accomplishments. Nothing worth doing is easy to come by, and remember, dreams without work are only dreams.
3.       Create a list of your goals. Once you’ve done that, then make another list of what it will take for you to reach those goals; consider each step and write them down, in order. After creating these lists, get to work! If you are working on what you need to do to reach your goals, you will have absolutely no time or energy to worry about someone else’s accomplishments. Hard work, dedication, consistency and absolute faith is all you need.
No, it is not easy…but yes, it is that simple!

And…if you need to learn more about getting “motivated”, take a look at our post from 5/2017,  it just may provide you with a little more 'get up and go'.

Get with it ladies….time waits for no one!

Free being me, naturally!
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